Monday 28 May 2012

Party Crafts: Recycled Bunting

I have a love/hate relationship with magazines. I'm like a magpie, attracted to their shiny, colourful offers of beautiful, mostly unaffordable clothes. I like reading the problem pages and checking out new cosmetics or beauty products because pampering oneself is FUN. However, I really, really dislike a few things about them: the pressures of perfection, the concept of paying hundreds of pounds for any item of clothing, and of course, the disposal of these magazines which seems a complete waste.

I go through magazines in the space of an hour (either I'm a speedy reader or the content isn't too thrilling) and to throw away a £2-£4 product makes my purse cry a little. Of course, you can recycle them the traditional way via paper recycling wheelie bins - OR you can turn them into fantastic decorations, like so:

 

Thursday 24 May 2012

Let the Sunshine In

Britain loves the warm weather. Evidence of this escalates when as soon as the temperatures hit the mid-20s, there is more flesh on show than a butcher's shop window. I'm no different to this worship of the sunshine, for I find it truly blasts away the blues and positively drags me out of the flat with far too much enthusiasm.

So, it was out with the picnic blanket (Primark, £6), cold alcoholic beverages and of course, our summer pride and joy: the bucket BBQ (Sainsburys, £10).


Indulging in steaks, sliced potatoes and yellow bell pepper pieces, it was certainly one of the classiest barbecues I've encountered before. It was far from the desperate attempts to light the disposable barbies from Poundland, eyeing the safety of a half-cooked, half-charred burger!


After stuffing myself, then more so with warmed up decadent cookies from Waitrose, I lay in the sun reading Murakami from my Kindle (an early birthday present from my mum!). Whilst on the subject, I highly recommend checking out the Kindle covers created by the lovely Annie Sparkles. The fox cover I have has sold out but she has plenty to choose from and I can confirm they're beautifully made and stunning to look at.


As a final treat to myself (I'm a huge fan of treats, as you can tell), I purchased this magazine entitled "What Every Woman Should Know". Whilst I'm not a Daily Mail reader at all, I could not turn down the opportunity to spy at the sort of lifestyle tips and advice presented to the ladies of the 1930s - that and oh my, the fashion causes my heart to flutter with envy! My favourite article so far is the guide to purchasing your clothes for the year with a budget of £30. I wonder if it's possible at all in this day in age!

Finally, my cool Deal of the Week:
Between 3pm to 5pm, every day until the 5th of June, Starbucks are offering 50% off any sized Frappuccinos. Flavours include: mocha cookie, caramel, strawberries and cream. You can save up to £1.85 (depending on the size you buy). Definitely ideal for cooling down!

Monday 21 May 2012

Disability Awareness

The other day, as I nestled into the comforts of a Saturday night with a pizza, I switched the television on. There appeared to be some form of Family Guy marathon going on BBC3, so I shrugged and left it on. The cosy night in turned sour, however, when one of the butt of the jokes happened to be that of an autistic lady in a wheelchair and how her presence would make the characters feel uncomfortable.
I'm not new to Family Guy, I understand that the premise of many jokes runs on off-colour humour but this reasoning does not settle well with me. There are a few problems with this joke:

  • The woman in question was part of a cut-away gag, a cheap flash of a joke that is not intrinsic to the overall storyline.
  • The woman was presented as unfathomable, unrelatable and frightening.
  • Her only purpose for existence was for the 5 seconds of humour. The basis of a real human is reduced to nothing.

Okay, but this is a cartoon, you say! Fine, okay, perhaps you could argue that I'm over thinking a silly TV show. Fine. If you think that what is shown to millions of people is not relative to anything tangible, fine.

Then how about the example of Heidi Crowter, a young lady with Down's Syndrome who was shamefully portrayed as an extremely unfunny meme on the internet? An image of her as a young child was taken from a support group and warped into a ridiculous outlet of 'humour', for the sake of a few cheap laughs.

The portrayal of disability online is tedious, ignorant and truly upsetting to those affected or to those who know anyone affected with it. Rather than shown as an amazing defeat of hindrances, becoming less able either physically or mentally is thrown away as an easy target to make faceless strangers on the internet giggle. They are shown as stupid or completely alien to 'normal' people.

Well, welcome to the internet, you snort and pat yourself on the back for such an original and insightful statement which suddenly makes all low-brow, offensive jokes acceptable.

Let's take it further: real life. My mother suffered from Cerebrospinal Meningitis when she was 2, rendering most of the right hand side of her body unresponsive. She cannot use her right hand, her speech is impaired, she has problems walking. Despite these problems, she grew up into the strongest woman I know and love, the greatest mother anyone can ask for. Any reasonable person would agree.

Children mocked my mum when they saw her in the playground. I heard every abusive term under the sun about her, some that I repeated to my mum in confusion who had to explain that some people can get nasty when they don't understand something or someone. Mum could not even say to me, 'Well, they are children, they will grow up and understand better.'

Adults behaved the same too.

Holding my mum's hand, as we did simple tasks such as going to the shops, I encountered some of the worst behaviour from supposed 'grown ups', such behaviour that upset and disgusted me even as a young child.
Getting on the bus, my mum would ask, 'a child and an adult ticket please'. The bus driver laughs in her face and does nothing. Mum's face flashes with annoyance and repeats herself. Bus driver laughs again. Seven year old me has to step in and talk on behalf of my mum, because apparently it is not clear what an adult and a child wishes for when getting on a bus. This event happened every week.

Some facts:
  • There are over 10 million people with a limiting long term illness, impairment or disability in the UK and disabled people are significantly more likely to be victims of crime than non-disabled people. (Source: British Crime Survey 2009/10).
  • 20% of repeat victims of anti-social behaviour are disabled people.
  • There were 1,569 recorded disability hate crimes across England, Wales and Northern Ireland during 2010, an increase from 1,294 incidents occurring in 2009, according to recent figures published by the Association of Chief Police Officers. (Source: http://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/disability-discrimination/disability-hate-crime)
With such a large presence in British society, it seems strange that attitudes towards the disabled is still mostly negative. Reported hate crimes are on the rise and that only accounts for reported offences; it's easy to estimate that the levels of abuse are far greater and vastly invisible - reports can be denied or ignored, leaving the perpetrators free to continue their attacks.

I believe that such mockery and torment of the disabled that appears as an outlet for 'comedy' is just the foundation for something more extreme and horrifying. If you can dehumanise somebody into a joke or a meme, you can take that further and dehumanise them completely in order to attack. I don't want to police anybody in what's funny or what isn't, we should all be able to understand what is right and wrong but by laughing at such humour against the vunerable, you're giving the thumbs up to the misery and humilation that disabled people face on a day to day basis.

What we need is a vast increase on education, not only in schools but the workplace and on television, too. When we stamp out ignorance, I honestly believe we'll be able to give the disabled a slightly more comfortable living than what they are used to.

To read more, here are some useful websites:

http://www.scope.org.uk/campaigns/scope-campaigns/hate-crime/take-action
http://www.stophateuk.org/
http://www.disabilityawarenessday.org.uk/

Saturday 19 May 2012

Sweet Treat Of The Week: Chocolate Mint Fudge Pie

Lately, I've been fantasising over everything mint chocolate. I'm not sure where this addiction has started, perhaps from the sly purchase of some Mint Kit-Kats. I've had this recipe bookmarked for a while and I have a terrible habit of hoarding recipes away for the day I decide to treat myself; today is that day. After all, Saturday is treat day.

So, with the constant craving for mint chocolate and the welcome embrace of happy tastebuds, I decided to try out this recipe: http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2012/03/14/mint-chocolate-fudge-pie/

I omitted the cool whip (I'm not sure there is an exact UK equivalent and I figured the pie itself would be indulgent enough) and hesitantly used a pre-made pie base as suggested. Had I more time to waste, I would have made a base from crumbled up digestives mixed with butter after the whole thing nearly collapsed in two when cutting up! However, since this only took 10 minutes to throw together, I shan't complain too much.

 
Note to self: leave it so set a little longer.

Delicious? Yes.
Easy? Very.
Would I make it again? Yes.

Thumbs up all around from me!

Party Crafts: Recycled Sweet Ramekins

In three weeks time, I'm throwing a party with Kitty to celebrate our joint 21st birthday. I love parties to begin with but even more than that, I adore planning the decorations and food and everything to keep it running smoothly.
So, over the next few weeks, I shall post the various ideas I've come across!

I have a ridiculously overpowering sweet tooth and this is evident by the pile of pudding ramekins lying in my cupboard, both at my flat and my mum's house. I've hoarded them away, determined to find another use for them some how.


Finally, a brainwave! They make the perfect bowls to decorate the house with at the party, filled with sweets and treats for my beloved guests. Then, to make them a little bit more exciting, I've mustered up a bow to add a more personal touch:



The pattern was simple, following the pattern on this website: http://www.crochetspot.com/crochet-pattern-pretty-pretty-bow/

To attach the bow on to the ramekins, before wrapping the centre, ch40, fasten off. Attach the bow in the centre of the chain then wrap around as you would normally. Then, tie either end around the ramekin. Easy!

Friday 18 May 2012

A Fresh Start

Hello there, dear world. I'm a bit hesitant to start a real blog as I follow so many great ones to begin with but I suppose we all have things that we need to share, so here lies my little corner in which I can do so.

I'm about to go into my third year of university, where I study English Literature and Criminology. I'm on a sabbatical right now, in which I've spent a lot of time playing with arts and crafts, exploring the UK and living life to the best rate I can on such a limited budget.

I hope this blog is the real deal in my fully tracking my life so hopefully one day I can read back with pride.

Thank you for your time!